Tuesday, July 10, 2007

To Chem Or Not To Chem

I was having lunch with my good friend. Out of the blue, he asked my opinion on chem sex. I asked him why? He told me that he was approached by a guy on the G4M and wanted to have chem sex with him. I told him of my personal experience ....


With threesome as the bait, I had no hesitation of accepting their offer. I went back with Mike and Joe to their place after clubbing.


I knew they were already on E at the club and I was cool about. They offered me some in the club but I declined. Back at their place, we were sitting in the sitting area and Mike rolled a joint. I was ok with the joint and joined them smoking it. The joint sort of set us into action. Popper was introduced in the middle of the action. I sniffed the poppers. Being stoned while having sex was quite an experience for me. Every possible positions were explored in the long hot sex. Mike and Joe had so much experience in it that the role was being changed constantly so as the focus was never on one person. I was really enjoying it so much.


Suddenly, Mike stopped and walked away. Joe and I continued the wild sex. Mike came back with a joint, two pills in his hand and a bottle of mineral water. He offered the E to Joe and me. I took the pill. Wild Threesome Part 2 instantly started after the short break. Joe was holding the joint when Mike was going down on me when all of the sudden, Joe went into a seizure. Both Mike and me started to panic. Mike was trying to grab hold of Joe and I was frantically trying to put off the small fire started from joint that Joe dropped. It seemed that it went on forever because both of us were bloody stoned. After a long long while, Mike screamed at me to call for the ambulance. I went to the phone and I looked blank into the phone, obviously having an anxiety attacked from the whole ordeal. Mike had to grab the phone from from me and called the ambulance. I just stood there staring at Joe.


At last the ambulance came. I continued standing still while watching the paramedics wheeling Joe away. Mike followed Joe to the hospital. Feeling miserable, confused and was still so stoned I went back home. At that point of time, I felt so wasted and I have never been so scared of my life. The whole incident kept on repeating in my mind over and over again every time I closed my eyes that night. I vouched to myself that I will never do chem any more.

21 comments:

tank said...

i google "what is chem sex" and found ur blog :D

Anonymous said...

Serves as a very good real story for those deciding whether to or not to.
Thanks for the post!

Anonymous said...

found ths via google too. thanks for the warning.

Last Man Standing said...

Thanks for the experience sharing.. It was veru usefull for me because jist yesterday one of my gay friend offer me to do chem sex... Now i know what to do.. thanks very much friend

QieFLy si Dolce said...

yeah me to....i also wanna now what is chem....and finally found ur blog....thanx for the info

Anonymous said...

woah..same thing google...

thanks for the heads up. def. not getting into this.

Anonymous said...

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Tonny said...

just like everyone else when i googled chem fun it led me to your blog..

Anonymous said...

Chem aka Chemical

atykelad said...

nice blog to warn of the dangers of drugs, but to be honest, chem sex relates more to methamphetamine or crystal meth, giving its street name, this drug is much more dangerous than cannabis or ecstasy. There is a direct link to chem sex and unsafe sex, so if your asked for chem sex, it most probably mean bareback sex. Stay clear, if you want to remain safe. Personally I have found cannabis to be fine and relaxing, but can also mean loosing your inhibitions, so please guys always make sure, that when u mix drugs and sex that you always play safe and make this clear from the start, before you take any drugs ..

edstrology 。爱特迷幻。 said...

Google show me this!!!

Anonymous said...

thx you for ur helping...; really thxx uuuuu !!!!!! i know now what is chems sex !!

Anonymous said...

Have had a lot of chems sex but always wondered about the dangers, so thanks for the advice.

Arash said...

same here. googled for info about chem sex.

Anonymous said...

Just like most of the other fellas I had to google the term. Thx 4 your story. Sounds too risky. Not my thing.

Anonymous said...

Great article it has been written since 2007 but right this moment its bell ringing. thank u

Anonymous said...

Please read this blog and be safe, use condom:

http://usoundz.blogspot.com.au/2011/03/chem-fun.html

Anonymous said...

Sounds well horny!

Anonymous said...

Chem sex can be really dangerous. I know that lots of my friends are using G now (GBL). It sounds like that was what was in the water. You're supposed to only have max 2mls every 2hrs, but if you take more you can go under (pass out).

I've only done it once, it was wild. We partied for 3 days on G, having the most amazing sex & lots of new guys were coming over to join in. It was fucking great, I had no inhibitions. But my friend who was there started to use G after that weekend because he felt anxious. He took small doses throughout the week, then he became addicted. He used to pass out all the time from G, like every weekend. He even had convulsions one time & we called an ambulance.

Now he has to have doses every 2-3 hours or he gets the worst comedowns, he even has to set his alarm to have doses in the night. It's fucking scary. He went to Antidote by London Friend & got some help, he is slowly coming off it because if you try to stop taking it suddenly you can die. Also he told me if you mix it with alcohol or other drugs you can die too. I had a good time but I won't do chem sex again. I think about it & no one used a condom, luckily I didn't get HIV or Hep or anything. You just never know.

Anonymous said...

Hey there... I used to do chem sex when I was a bit younger. I enjoyed every time of it, loving it; with crystal meth... I never used condom. Non of use us condoms every time we had chem sex. I also used to be so addicted to crystal meth. I remember I was never sober for at least 2 years. I spent at least RM2000 a month to buy my supply. Those years, my life was just about sex, drugs, clubs, private parties...

Until I don't know what got into me, I decided to do HIV test.

AND THE RESULT SHOWS I'M POSITIVE.

Further blood test of CD4 and viral load shows that I was at a critical stage. Sad.

I quit chem sex, I quit drugs, I quit smoking and begin the anti retroviral treatment immediately. It was not easy. I had to isolate myself, took unpaid leave from work for 3 months, and battled with the drug withdrawal syndrome, ALONE!

Thank God, I'm all clean now, living very healthy lifestyle now, HIV condition is getting better and better. I cried every time when those experience flashes on my mind.

My advice, please stay safe in what you do. If u wanna do drugs and sex, please stay safe and don't over do.. but BEST not to involve with any of these. Coz you are just so so lucky if nothing happens to you, but when u get infected by HIV or STDs, you will regret for the rest of your life. And if you wish to still so drugs and unsafe sex, please please do regular check up for HIV and STDs. It is never too late.